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Education Week: Travel to New Zealand

In Education Week, Life on February 26, 2010 at 9:00 am

This is the end of our around the world Education Week tour. Don’t you wish we could go on visiting other countries? I do. We end today with New Zealand. A destination that is at the top of Nathan’s bucket list. The place is gorgeous! To show us around her homeland, we have Julie from Gore, New Zealand. Way down south. She has lived in New Zealand all her life. Julie is married with two girls (seen in the photos) who are 7 and 5. Take it away Julie…

What are some traditions or customs of New Zealand?

Everyone, well most, take their annual holidays at Christmas and go away to the beach, lake or river. Remember, its summer at Christmas for us. The Maori people, the indigenous people of New Zealand, have a number of traditions or tikanga including powhiri (a traditional welcome ceremony) and a hongi (a traditional greeting which is done by pressing one’s nose to another person nose).

What do you love about New Zealand?

I LOVE my country! I love that I can drive two hours in one direction and be on the snow slopes. Drive one hour in the other direction and be at a beautiful white sandy beach. Walk 15 minutes and be at the river. It is also a very mulitcultural country. I love that!

What is your favorite food that is only served in New Zealand?

A traditional Maori hangi! A hangi is a special way of cooking food under the ground using red hot rocks and steam. Rocks are heated and put into a pit in the ground. And then wire baskets of food – meat (maybe pork, lamb, chicken), potatoes, kumera (like sweet potato) – are put on top of the rocks. The baskets get covered with wet sheets and the wet sheets get covered with wet sacks. Then the sacks are covered with dirt. The water in the wet cloths turns into steam when it gets heated by the rocks. And because the steam can’t escape through the dirt it heats and cooks the food. It takes about 7 hours to cook a hangi from start to finish but the food is delicious!

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

I live in a reasonably small town of about 13,000 people. The town is surrounded by farms (mainly sheep and dairy). The living conditions are really very good. Most of the homes are made from brick with some of the newer houses being made from wood. There are no apartments or anything like that in Gore. There are quite a lot of what we call ‘lifestyle blocks’ in our area. Where people live out of town on quite a bit of land, but not a farm. We live in a smallish three bedroom house with quite a small yard.

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

I really don’t have any idea. Away from the big cities I really am out of touch in this area. Not that I have really been one to keep up with trends. I can tell you the trends in my life right now and that is shopping in vintage/second hand shops and sewing!

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

Locally – Whether or not the town should get curbside recycling. Ummm hello – YES!! This debate has been going on since we moved here two and a half years ago. Get with the times people!

Julie's two daughters.

What is it like to be a mom there compared to other parts of the world?

I think mums (we spell it differently down here) all around the world want the same thing for their children. They want them to be happy and healthy. Being a mum is the hardest but most rewarding job that there is. There is always that constant battle of work/home/social life – which I think a lot of mum’s would struggle with.

How are children raised differently there? What do they eat, play with, popular games or toys?

I would say it is probably no different than the US. My girls both go to school. School goes from 8:45 a.m. until 3 p.m. With a short break in the morning and then a longer break at lunch time. They both get homework, not a lot but enough for them to moan and groan. Generally they have a book/story to read, then maybe some maths and writing. Food here is probably no different than the U.S. Games and toys are also probably no different than the U.S. Popular activities at our place at the moment a bike riding, babies (their dolls), ponies (My Little Ponies) and anything to do with crafting.

» Tell me… What do you think about New Zealand? Do you want to visit there? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Don’t Forget… Over-used Recipe Swap

In Food, Over-used Recipes on February 26, 2010 at 8:00 am

Over-used Recipes Swap

Don’t you forget about the exciting event we have coming next week. It’s the Over-used Recipe Swap where we all share our over-used recipes in exchange for other people’s over-used recipes. It’s that recipe you made so many times that your family is sick of it. Or perhaps it is that one recipe you take pleasure in cooking. And it’s that recipe that reminds you of your mother’s or grandmother’s cooking.

Our goal is to gather at least 365 recipes in ONE WEEK. This way, we have enough new recipes to last a whole year! I’m all about planning ahead. So are you in or not? Start typing out your recipes. We will have a link up Monday morning. You will have Monday through Sunday (March 1-7) to link your recipe from your blog.

And there’s more… I will be posting several over-used recipes from other famous bloggers and some of my blogger friends. Won’t it be fun to see what they eat in their household?

Minor details:

  • If your recipe is already on your blog, great. Just come and link it up on Monday.
  • If you don’t have a blog or your blog is private, that’s OK. You can leave your recipes in the comments.
  • Please take the time to double check your typing. Don’t want someone to try your recipe and accidentally use a tablespoon instead of a teaspoon.
  • My lovely international readers. I always have you in mind. Sorry most recipes will be in wacky U.S. measurements. You are welcomed to post your recipes in metric measurements. We can all convert measurements using an online conversion calculator.

If it helps, take a button as a reminder and share this announcement (copy code below for the button above). I’m sure you know of a few people also looking for some new recipes to add to their collection. Get them in on the fun. See you Monday!

Friday’s 5 at 5: Realizations

In Friday's 5 at 5, Life on February 26, 2010 at 5:00 am

The picture… I was probably about 10 years old dancing in a hula halau (school). I grew up in Hawaii and dance hula for a good majority of childhood and even some in college. Nothing in relation to today’s Friday 5 at 5, except that I like the picture. It was a great time in my life.

I recently came to the following realizations about life…

  1. The best way to save money is to not spend it.
  2. Don’t get comfortable in life. When you do, it means it is time to try something new.
  3. Kids will love you no matter what. So stop trying to please them. Do what’s best for them.
  4. Don’t worry about what others are doing. Just care about what you are doing. Then do it well.
  5. Be genuine and giving. People are more acceptive to that than selfishness and greed.

» Tell me… Have you come to any realizations about life lately? What was it?

The Vintage Pearl Sponsored Giveaway

In Giveaway, Sponsors on February 25, 2010 at 9:00 am

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All right ladies. Are you ready to win some jewelry? I am one who can always use more jewelry. How about you? This time, I’m giving away custom jewelry of your choice from one of Simply Modern Mom’s sponsors, The Vintage Pearl. Each piece of jewelry from The Vintage Pearl is handmade to perfection. You have your choices from different fonts and styles.

The Vintage Pearl is giving one lucky winner a $50 gift certificate! Entries closes Thursday, March 4, at 10 p.m. EST. I will announce the winner on Friday, March 5.

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Education Week: Travel to South Africa

In Education Week, Life on February 25, 2010 at 8:00 am

Sadly, what I know about South Africa is from the movie The Endless Summer. My dad is a surfer and we watched surf movies growing up. But even in the movie, South Africa seemed like an exciting tropical place to visit. To tell us about South Africa is Eunice who lives in a municipality just outside Durban called Queensburgh, in a suburb called Malvern. She is married with three grown children and two grandchildren.

{image of Cape Town by Joanne from Flickr}

What are some traditions or customs of South Africa?

We live in a country which is a mix of first and third world, so there are a lot of things which you would find anywhere in the developed world, and things peculiar to Africa. We have a huge variety of wildlife – birds, insects, snakes, the Big five (lions, elephants, rhinos, leopards and buffalo), crocodiles and everything inbetween. We have a lot of wildlife reserves too.

What is your favorite food that is only served in South Africa?

We have dishes from all the different cultures who live here. We have Indian, African, Afrikaans, Malay and European influences in our cuisines. One of the African dishes I like is called samp and beans. Samp is dried corn which has been roughly crushed. It is cooked together with dried beans for several hours until done and then greens can be added if desired, or it can be eaten as a side dish with meat.

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

Queensburgh is in a greenbelt and wherever you drive through this area you are surrounded by trees. Because it is a very old area (my husband’s family moved out here in 1895), the roads are mostly quite narrow and there are quite a lot of older houses. There has been a lot of development lately, so the character of the area is starting to change. But it is still a lovely tranquil place to live. It is one of those areas where people settle, their families grow up and settle in the same areas and the next generation does the same. It is not unusual to have been living in the area for three or more generations.

In our area we are close enough to shop in Durban if we want but far enough away to feel as if we live in the countryside. We build mostly with bricks here in South Africa, and usually the houses are one-story.We usually have walls or hedges lining outer boundaries as well.

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

Fashion-wise we are first world. Same for interior decor. Art-wise, indigenous art is really starting to come into it’s own. There are a lot of South African artists whose work is doing very well overseas at the moment. I wouldn’t be surprised if you found some locally.

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

The biggest thing happening on our news at the moment is our President’s love life, and the fact that we are hosting the soccer world cup this year in June/July.

What are some stores you like to shop there?

We have Woolworths here and a lot of the boutique shops (Tommy Hilfiger, Calvin Klein, etc.). We also have supermarkets called Pick-n-Pay, Shoprite Checkers, Spar, Game. We really don’t have any problems getting goods here and can find almost anything we want. I just have a problem with craft supplies. We don’t have a lot of local manufacturers (the number is growing), so a lot is being imported. And with the cost of import duties some of the stuff is quite expensive. I just won’t buy at some of the prices they ask. I either do without or make a plan around it.

What is it like to be a mom there compared to other parts of the world?

The subtropical climate makes us be a bit more careful because there are a lot of parasites that can infest us. The African children don’t have much immunity to diseases like polio and measles, and many die every year from these. Cholera is a problem because of lack of clean water in some areas. We are also having a problem with malaria. But these diseases are found in other parts of the world as well, they are not peculiar to us.

How are children raised differently there? What do they eat, play with, popular games or toys?

The children here are the same as everywhere else as far as pastimes are concerned. I am really concerned at the amount of time kids spend playing video and computer games, instead of being outside playing physical games. They just seem incapable of amusing themselves. Even kids from poorer families want cell phones and handheld games. I see parents practcally bankrupt themselves to get these for their kids.

As to what our kids like to eat, we have Kentucky Fried Chicken and McDonalds here, so you can guess where the queue is.

What is something all moms can learn from South African moms?

Protect your kids from the sun (use hats, sunscreen, UV-resistant swimming clothes). Teach them tolerance for the other people and cultures who live here with us. And appreciate the modern conveniences we enjoy in our third world country. Things could be worse! I find that most of the people (of all colours) here in South Africa are much the same as anyone anywhere else. We’re just trying to survive and do the best for our families with what we have.

» Tell me… What did you learn about South Africa? Would you like to visit there? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Coming & Going

In Random on February 24, 2010 at 3:10 pm

Don’t give up on me just yet. I know I haven’t had a tutorial in a few weeks. They are coming. I promise. I am currently working on two tutorials with another one in mind. Hopefully I will get them done.

Some of you have been enjoying the around the world posts for Education Week. I’m glad you are learning about what life is like elsewhere.

I also know that some of you think this around the world stuff it quite boring and frankly, too much reading material. Don’t worry. I’m not getting all editorial on you. I will still give you lists. Bullet points. That’s the way to go, right?

It seems that my time has been occupied with watching some Winter Olympic events and going stir crazy with this winter weather. And mostly, cleaning parts of my neglected house. Do you know what that’s like, neglected house?

Last Sunday we had a beautiful day warm enough to go out for a walk. Elle was more than happy to go off on her own. I’m holding myself back from pulling out all our spring and summer clothes. I am begging for spring to come.

» Tell me… Are you tired of winter too?

Education Week: Travel to Portugal

In Education Week, Life on February 24, 2010 at 9:00 am

{image by Nathan}

Nathan was excited about Portugal being represented in our around the world Education Week. He spent two years in Lisbon and Madeira. Therefore, some of the pictures in this post are from him. But rather than asking Nathan about Portugal, I had Paula who is currently living in Lisbon do our Q&A. She is far more interesting than Nathan, I’m sure. Paula has lived in Portugal all her life. She is married with two children, 16 and 9 years old. She is employed at an educational exchange program for Portuguese and American scholars and students. Thanks, Paula, for sharing with us your lovely country.

What are some traditions or customs of Portugal?

We have a long history and many of our traditions and celebrations are related to our history. For instance, many towns organize fairs in their castles to attract tourists. There are many castles in Portugal although most of them are in ruins with only a few walls left. In these fairs the locals dress up in medieval clothes and sell local products and food. In Lisbon, on June 13, we celebrate Saint Anthony with parades and music in the streets. On this occasion bars and restaurants usually serve grilled sardines with bread and wine.

What do you love about Portugal?

I love the mild climate and the long coast line with wonderful sandy beaches. Lisbon is a beautiful city with old neighborhoods and monuments but the countryside appeals to me more and more as I grow older.

What is your favorite food that is only served in Portugal?

Dry cod fish (we call it bacalhau) is a national food that we cook in many different ways. Grilled fresh fish is also delicious and very easy to find especially in the summer months. Then each region has its own typical dishes and desserts. I love the traditional desserts which are mainly made with egg yolks, sugar and almond. Very yummy but not good if you’re on a diet. I also love the cheese – there are many different types according to the region where they are produced.

{image by Nathan}

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

Lisbon is a city with ca. 1 million inhabitants. Many people work in Lisbon but live outside the city and commute everyday. Portuguese population is aging because most couples have only one or two kids and many have no kids at all. On the other hand the life expectancy has increased so we have many elders and fewer children.

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

In arts and crafts, I would say there’s a “new” movement and many girls and young women are learning to sew and knit and they open small online shops to sell their products. Whereas women of my mother’s generation all learned to sew when they were little, the next generation didn’t have much interest in crafts but now we see a new interest for handmade items and for learning crafts.

{image by Nathan}

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

I’m sorry to say it’s the economic and financial crisis. Unemployment rate is rising every month and examples of companies that are closing down are always in the news. Soccer (which we call football) is always in the news too.

What are some stores you like to shop there?

The things I prefer to buy are books and fabrics, and we get better prices buying these online. For clothes, when I can afford it, I like a store called Lanidor. It’s a Portuguese brand but they opened stores in several other countries in Europe, Africa and the Middle East. I also like to shop at the El Corte Ingles, a Spanish department store. For the kids I buy at Benetton, Zara, H&M and of course, I buy them clothes whenever I travel to the US. There are no GAP stores in Portugal.

Paula's two children.

What is it like to be a mom in Portugal compared to other parts of the world?

I think one of the main differences is that in Portugal there are very few stay at home moms and even fewer who do home schooling. I only know one mom who is about my age that doesn’t work outside of home but her daughter goes to school. In the countryside there may be more stay at home moms than in the cities, but children usually do go to school. This means we have less time to be with the children, and we spend our days running to get it all done.

How are children raised differently there?

Nowadays with the globalization I believe children are very much alike in what they eat and what they play. They all like to go to McDonald’s even when they only eat the fries and they all enjoy video games. Wii is a great success here. They all want to dress alike and I struggle against this as I think this type of behavior (doing exactly the same all the other kids are doing) kills their creativity. I try to talk my daughter into being herself and not copy what the others do. But it is not easy as kids tend to think that being different is bad. I remember 2 years ago we went shopping for stationary for school in August and there were no notebooks available featuring the idol that was fashionable that year (probably Hanna Montana). My daughter was on the verge of tears but I convinced her that at home we could turn a plain notebook into a cute one, with her drawings and photos and some felt. When classes started she was really nervous because her notebooks were not alike the other kids’, but what happened was that the other girls loved and praised her notebooks and she felt super important that day. I also made some pencil rolls for her and her friends loved them and she felt great. She has come to understand that different can be great, but it’s a slow process. 

What is something that all moms can learn from Portuguese moms?

Balancing family life with working outside of home. Most moms have a full-time job as most families cannot live with only one salary, but I think we’re pretty successful balancing our family life with our work. Moms try hard to spend quality time with their children and to make a home for them. We know how hard it is to do so with little time.

» Tell me… What did you learn about Portugal? Anything new? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Polaroid: I Love Him

In Polaroid on February 24, 2010 at 8:00 am

Project 52: Belated Valentine & Yahtzee

In Project 52: Date Nights on February 23, 2010 at 9:00 am

This week’s date was split into two parts. Since we were snowed in last weekend (Valentine’s Day weekend) we celebrated V-day on Monday. We went back to our original Valentine’s date plan of going out to eat and having my parents babysit. Yes, it’s nice having my parents nearby. Lesson #1: Better late than never, right?

For our night out, we ate at Red Lobster. Courtesy of Nathan’s sister who sent us gift cards to Red Lobster for Christmas. I can have seafood all day, even if it’s Red Lobster. I spent most of my childhood on islands that had fresh seafood available. Then walked around Target and Kohl’s. Got home in time to put the kiddos to bed. Lesson #2: Even though Nathan dreads retail stores, he was willing to go with me. That’s love.

Then Friday rolled around, we were in the routine of doing date nights on Fridays that we spent some time playing a few games of Yahtzee after the girls went to bed. I won. Then he won. We called it good. Lesson #3: Now that we are week 8 of 52 of Project 52: Date Nights, it is becoming a habit. Yay!

Nathan said: The Valentine’s Day dinner was a nice break from the stay-at-home dates. It was refreshing to get out of the house without the kids and go to dinner on our own schedule. I’m thankful the V-day date counted as a date because thinking and planning dates is more work than I expected. Game night was fun and I was amazed at how many games of Yahtzee we’ve played over the years. At least a hundred games!

» Tell me… How was your date night last week? I want to read all about it by commenting or linking to your website. Want to join Project 52: Date Night? That’s great! Start anytime. Go here for details about the project and print the pledge.

If you link up and don’t see your link on there, refresh the page. If it is still not there, try it again. If it gets on there twice by accident, I can always delete the second one. When you link up, please remember…

  • Keep it clean and family friendly. This is a family friendly site. Anything inappropriate will be deleted.
  • It needs to be a date. Not your latest projects or pictures of your beautiful children. I do love reading about your projects and learning about your family. But this linky is for date nights and date nights only. It is for us to exchange date night ideas.
  • Link to a specific blog post about your date that week. Don’t just link to your site’s home page. It needs to be the direct link to the post. Anything not directly linked to the post will be deleted.
  • Link back to Simply Modern Mom or put the Project 52: Date Nights button on your site. It’s common courtesy. Please be nice.

Project 52 Date Nights

Education Week: Travel to Scotland

In Education Week, Life on February 23, 2010 at 8:00 am

I have read all of Jade’s comments on Simply Modern Mom. She’s been here a while and how exciting it was for me to learn that she is in Scotland! It’s one of my dream destinations. Gorgeous views and scenery. Jade is located in Aberdeen. She has been dating her boyfriend for six years. She works as a geophysicist allowing her to travel often, which is something she loves doing. Thank you, Jade, for doing our Q&A about Scotland.

What are some traditions or customs of Scotland?

Scotland has some well known traditions and stereotypes recognized throughout the world. I think the most well known one is the kilt, of course. Then there’s the food – haggis and deep fried Mars Bars. We certainly eat haggis. The deep fried Mars Bars are limited to a small minority of the population though. Another tradition which I really enjoy is a ceilidh which is a party with traditional Scottish dancing, it involves a lot of spinning around and if you’ve got a strong Scottish boy as your partner it’s not uncommon for your feet to lift off the ground while you’re twirling around! We’ve all had to learn these dances since we were at primary school so most of us remember them.

What do you love about Scotland?

What I love about Scotland the most is the people (ok maybe I’m biased!) and the way they use the language. It’s distorted throughout the country into different versions, and I love that there are still local dialects. It sounds fantastic.I also love the scenery which is why a lot of people come to visit Scotland. We are so spoiled with gorgeous mountains and natural beauty as well as a mixture of great architecture, from old castles to new and interesting buildings such as in Glasgow.

What is your favorite food that is only served in Scotland?

Probably pineapple cakes are one of my favourite foods. They are small individual cakes with sweet short crust pastry, a layer of pineapple mixed with a sort of pineapple jam, cream, then yellow fondant icing over the top. I know pineapples don’t really grow in Scotland but that’s the only place I’ve had these cakes. I do love a bit of haggis, neeps (turnips) and tatties (potatoes) too. It’s complete comfort food to me, especially when you put some wholegrain mustard in with the mashed potatoes.

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

Living in Aberdeen is similar to living in a lot of cities in the UK, people either live in flats (apartments) or houses. In Scotland there is still a strong tradition of using local stone and mortar for construction. In Aberdeen it is common for a lot of houses to be composed of granite, this is a very hard strong rock which had a grey appearance but glitters when the sun shines on it. In the southern parts of Scotland it’s a lot more common for sandstone to be used. In the southwest it is red coloured sandstone and in the east, blonde sandstone, giving each areas cities a different feel.

The best thing about Aberdeen is it’s a small city, you can get everything you need there from shopping and cinema, swimming pools and parks, but in minutes you can be out of the town to the beach or into the countryside. It’s the best of both worlds and still has a very community feel to it.

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

We follow the major fashion trends here, but it’s also a bit chilly so sometimes there’s a bit more layering involved! There are a lot of people here at the moment doing more traditional arts and crafts again. It’s become somewhat fashionable, such as knitting and sewing. I suppose it’s pretty similar to the USA, there’s a bit of scrapbooking here but it’s not as popular as the USA.

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

The story which dominates the news here at the moment is the war in Afghanistan. There have been many Scottish lives lost there. In terms of local news, one of the main story today is about a missing retired farmer with dementia who because lost in the Argyll hillside who was found thanks to his old sheepdog, Nell, who was with him and who alerted searchers to where they were in the woods.

What are some stores you like to shop there?

There are lots of shops here, including the big international chains, but there are quite a few more local stores as well. Locally there are lots of great small shops and delis. The Ian Mellis Cheese Shop, which I adore. UK-wide there are Marks and Spencer’s and Next which are well known high street favourites here for clothes. I also like to shop at Gap and TKMaxx. We bought a few pieces of furniture from IKEA when we first bought our own place. Although now I’m more keen to buy older pieces at auction and refurbish them myself. We’re really lucky be able to get everything we need so easily here and there is plenty of local meat and veg which is reasonable priced.

What is something all moms can learn from Scottish moms?

I’m not a mum yet so can’t speak from personal experience, but from my Mum and Gran I would say that Scottish mum’s are great role models, they teach children that women should be strong and independent as well as supportive of their husbands. Both my Mum and Gran are very strong women, they gave their children care and attention but also taught them independance too.

» Tell me… What do you think of Scotland now? Did you learn a new thing or two? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Education Week: Travel to the Philippines

In Education Week, Life on February 22, 2010 at 9:00 am

Today’s country is the Philippines. I asked Jing who has been living in Manila, Philippines, all her life to tell us about her country. She is a 42-year-old single mom of four teenagers and a grandparent of one. Thanks, Jing, for teaching us about the Philippines.

What do you love about your country?

I love our seven thousand plus islands. It gives the country such diversity that you’ll never tire of seeing more and more of it.

What is your favorite food that is only served there?

I love sinigang! It’s a tamarind-based sour soup which can be made with pork, beef, shrimp or fish and vegetables like string beans, kangkong and labanos. It is a very versatile dish that’s hugely comforting and easy to make.

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

I live in the suburbs, in a village where kids can still play on the streets outside their homes. It’s getting increasingly urbanized though. Malls are the big thing here in the Philippines. Personally, I don’t like these giant boxes of commerce. I would prefer little shops but those are fast vanishing.

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

This being a tropical country, the emphasis is on keeping cool especially with the summer months upon us. Sandals and flip-flops have become the order of the day. Things are laid-back. Fashion-wise, we are up-to-date with global trends but Filipinos still tend to be a bit conservative. Interior design trends are based on our wealth of indigenous raw materials. Upcycling is slowly but surely getting big here. Fashionistas have gone vintage. Crafters are finding new uses for old things.

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

There’s going to be an election this May so, that event is pretty much headlining everything.

What is it like to be a mom there compared to other parts of the world?

I think mothers across the globe basically have the same concerns: how to raise their children well, teach them the right values, feed them healthy food, etc. The difference lies in the environment we’re living in. Instilling the proper Filipino values is important in our culture. Preserving the family prevails above all; we like getting together as a family on weekends to eat and talk. We always tell our children to pay respect to their elders by using the terms “po” and “opo.” We encourage them to say thanks, “salamat.” We emphasize the importance of working together (“bayanihan”) as a family or as a team to achieve a common goal. We also put a premium on taking care of our elders; extended families are still very much the norm here with either the grandparents or uncles or aunts living with the family.

How are children raised differently there? What do they eat, play with, popular games or toys?

We are a rice-eating culture, so everything revolves around rice. Children are usually served white rice together with a main dish and fruits. We are fortunate that we still get our food fresh here. You can go to your favourite butcher and get meat just butchered that very morning. There are all sorts of fresh vegetables to make all sorts of tasty dishes. And of course, the seafood-fish, shrimp, crabs, squid-they’re all here.

We have traditional games but unfortunately, they have been replaced by computer games and online games. That’s what most kids are into these days.

» Tell me… Have you been to the Philippines? What did you learn from Jing that fascinated you about her country? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Education Week: Travel to Australia

In Education Week, Life on February 19, 2010 at 9:00 am

{image by Lisa}

Today we are going down under. Oh how I would love to visit Australia, it’s on my bucket list. It is such an adventurous place, it seems. To tell us about Australia, I have Catherine and Lisa. Catherine lives in Darwin, been there for about 9 years. She is married and a stay-at-home mom with two boys (and a husband). Then Lisa is living in Brisbane, which is the capital city of the state of Queensland. She has lived there since 1984. She and her husband Rob have two kids, Ella, 6, and Finn, 4. And she works part-time as a nurse.

What are some traditions or customs of Australia?

Catherine: Aboriginal Australian traditions vary from place to place but are based on their belief in the Dreamtime and their connection to the land. These stories are told through their art, craft and through traditional dances. Another tradition common to Australia and New Zealand is Anzac Day. This is a national day commemorating the first major military action (at Gallipoli in Turkey) fought by Australian and New Zealand forces during the First World War.

Lisa: January 26 is Australia Day and is a national public holiday. On that day, Sydney has a reenacting of the first fleet arriving, lots of local gatherings for BBQ’s, cockroach races in pubs, two-up games, thong tossing games, prawn peeling contests, concerts and fireworks. It’s a day not only celebrating the birth of our nation, but what it has become.
Sport has a HUGE following here. People are very commited to their chosen team, whether it’s a type of football, cricket, basketball- whatever. There is also lots of rivalry, but not usually violence. Lots of people play sport, too, which is another advantage of great weather.

What do you love about Australia?

Catherine: I love that Australia is so big that you can’t know all the landscapes and so, there is always something new to discover. I love that the people are mostly friendly and generous. I love that we have beautiful weather and are able to spend lots of time outdoors.

Lisa: I love the relaxed lifestyle, the diversity of places to visit (city, beach, snow, outback). The food, the outdoors- lots of open spaces, outdoor dining. The weather, for the most part, although I don’t like the humidity in Brisbane.

What is your favorite food that is only served in Australia?

Catherine: Vegemite (a food paste made from yeast extract).

Lisa: We are known for BBQ’s, meat pies and sausage sizzles. We have some deserts that are unique to us- Pavlova (meringue covered in cream then fresh fruit), lamingtons (sponge cake covered in chocolate icing and rolled in coconut) and ANZAC biscuits (you call them cookies). Most of our fresh foods we grow ourselves, which is great, although we do find some imported things sometimes (oranges and grapes from USA).

{image by Catherine}

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

Catherine: People mostly live in suburban houses. There are a few apartment complexes in the inner city. Where I live, in Darwin, homes are single-storey and open plan with lots of windows and doors to let the air flow around the house. Most houses have large verandahs to shade the house and provide an outdoor living space.

Lisa: Traditionally, homes in Brisbane were made from wood. They were known as Queenslanders or Workers Cottages. Dating from early last century, many still exist and are renovated and often extended. They were raised off the ground, had high ceilings and wide verandahs. They were meant to be cool in summer and warm in winter but the opposite is usually the case. The other trend now is towards modern rendered houses built on small blocks (400 sq. meters). In my neighbourhood, it is popular to buy a block, knock down the existing house and build two new houses, or maybe one big one. Open-plan living is popular, with a wall of doors that open right up onto a large deck.

Living in Brisbane is great. Population about 1.85million so not too crowded. There’s lots to do. The beach is only an hour’s drive away, so popular for a day trip, or longer holiday. Brisbane has lots of bike paths which are safe for taking the kids for a ride.

{image by Lisa}

What are some trends in fashion, interior design and arts and craft?

Catherine: I think the dominant trend in interior design is for more eco-concious living and connecting the outdoor and indoor spaces of the house. There is also a growing awareness and appreciation for Aboriginal art in Australia.

Lisa: Craft has made a big comeback here. There are markets on every weekend in lots of places with handmade goods.

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

Catherine: One big ongoing national story at the moment is on stopping Japanese whaling in Antarctic waters and the actions of activist groups against whalers.

Lisa: The news over here is mostly about the Queensland Government at the moment. The leader of the government is called the Premier and ours is currently selling off lots of the state’s assets to raise money. We are not happy and her approval rate has just been reported as being 28 percent. And lots of angst about our health system and schools.

What is it like to be a mom there compared to other parts of the world?

Catherine: I think Australia is lucky because there is the opportunity to let your child play outside and go exploring without the worry (or censure from other people) this would create in many other parts of the world. One disadvantage for mums in Australia is that many families do not live near extended family and this can make motherhood very isolating.

{image by Catherine}

How are children raised differently there? What do they eat, play with, popular games or toys?

Catherine: Australia has lots of opportunities for children to be outside and to play sports (although we do still have a problem with obesity). Popular sports for Aussie kids are cricket, rugby, Australian Rules Football and swimming. We play outside all year round swimming, in the sandpit, bike riding and gardening. My children both love to eat vegemite sandwiches, barramundi and chips or anzac biscuits, but pavlova is yuck!

Lisa: They start school here in Prep. They wear a uniform and must have their hat- “No Hat No Play.” As we have one of the highest rates of skin cancer in the world, we are very big on sun protection. They take their own food to school, but also have Tuckshops- like your canteens, I guess.

What is something all moms can learn from Australian moms?

Catherine: It is hard to be so general about Australian mum. But I think something that people could learn from Australian mums is to let your children get dirty, let them go exploring and let them find a bit of trouble. My children are potentially at risk from all sorts of dangerous critters living right in my backyard, but I teach them how to be careful and let them play. That will make them stronger, more interesting and more confident people than if I made them stay inside because they might find trouble.

» Tell me… Did you find Australia fascinating? What did you learn from Catherine and Lisa? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Over-Used Recipe Week 2010

In Events, Food, Over-used Recipes on February 19, 2010 at 8:30 am

I cook. A lot. I’m not a chef. I’m a mom. And I often feel like I cook the same recipes over and over again. You know the feeling. Too mundane. Then I talk to my friends. They know the feeling too. Then came the idea…

What if we exchanged our over-used recipes? Over-used? You know, the one meal that you cook over and over again because it is easy and you’ve made it so many times you don’t even have to measure the ingredients. Oooh, that recipe.

So here it is…

Over-used Recipes Swap

It’s like a recipe swap. I am hoping to collect over 365 recipes from all of you. That’s enough new recipes to cover all of us for a year. It’ll come to you in a linking party way. Meaning you blog your over-used recipes, then link it here beginning March 1. You don’t have a blog? Leave the recipe in the comments. That’ll work too.

And here is an added bonus… I enlisted some “famous” bloggers and some of my blogger friends to share with us their over-used recipes. Don’t you want to know what they eat all the time? I do!

Take a button if you want and share this announcement (copy code below). Remember, the goal is 365 recipes. Let’s get cookin’!

Winner of *Shey*[B] Giveaway

In Giveaway, Sponsors on February 19, 2010 at 8:00 am

Congratulations to Emily who said…

The Random Number Generator picked you to win the $30 gift certificate to *Shey*[B]. You can pick the camera strap cover of your choice. Look for an email from me.

Have you seen Shealynn’s new camera strap covers? She has added a ton of new styles and designs since the giveaway post. Some of the cutest! Plus she has some amazing add ons such as zip flowers or satin flowers. Go visit her store now and see what’s new. Your camera strap deserves to be stylin’ too.

Friday’s 5 at 5: Use Olympics to Teach Culture

In Education Week, Events, Friday's 5 at 5 on February 19, 2010 at 5:00 am

{image by Tiffany Bird}

It’s been a great week learning about countries around the world with more countries to come next week. With the Winter Olympics going on in Vancouver, this is a great time to teach your children about countries around the world. And if you’re not already glued to the TV watching every Winter Olympic event, then here are ideas to get the Olympic excitement going in your household.

It begins with each child picking a country they want to cheer and support, and parents can be included too. Keep the Olympics on the TV screen so the children can cheer on their country in the various events.

  1. Wave a flag. Olympians love to wave their country flag. Have the kids draw their country’s flag they are supporting.
  2. Medal count. Keep track of each country’s winnings in a chart using stickers. Better yet, make your own gold, silver and bronze medal ribbons for the kids to wear. Visit the official Vancouver Olympics website for a list of each country’s winnings.
  3. Dot it on the map. Find their country on a world map. Better yet, take a trip there on Google Earth.
  4. Dance off. Play music from each country and have your own dance Olympic event.
  5. Say what? Using online language translators and find how to say or write funny phrases in their country’s language.

A Phone Interview

In Featured on February 18, 2010 at 8:35 pm

I think it’s true. I believe my voice will be on TV tomorrow, as in Friday, Feb. 19. At least in Utah it will be.  Perhaps my voice attached to my photo? Brooke and Darin, the hosts of KSL Studio 5 wants to interview me about Project 52: Date Night. Oh boy. Did I mention it’s going to be a live phone interview? Phone interview because they’re in Utah, I’m… well, I’m not in Utah.

I hesitated to tell you because I’m hoping you won’t listen to me make a fool of myself on TV if you’re in Utah. But if you do watch it because you’re nice, please cheer for me as I’ll be nervous. I’m not used to being on the receiving side of an interview. I’m used to being the one asking questions from my days working as a journalist. And back when I was studying journalism in college, we had to do radio stories for a campus station. That’s when I learned I do not have the voice to be on radio.

All I’m saying is… thanks. Thanks for all  your support. I have the best readers in the blogosphere.

Now off to warm up my phone voice.

P.S. If anyone in Utah can record this for me, somehow in digital form so you can email it to me. Unless you are willing to send it to me in another form. I will be so grateful. There may be a little something, something for you if you do. (Not to bribe my readers.) My parents and Nathan’s parents (none of which live in Utah) would like to see it. I don’t know if I could watch it myself. But, you know, for them… Email me if you’re willing to tiffany{at}simplymodernmom{dot}com.

Education Week: Travel to Canada

In Education Week, Life on February 18, 2010 at 9:00 am

{image by Sandy}

How did you like learning about Japan yesterday? Just wait until you see what other countries I have for the remainder of this week and all next week. Today, I had three Canadian readers telling us about “O, Canada” – OK not the anthem but the beloved country. Some of us in the U.S. may not think of Canada as being so foreign. But I think you’ll be surprised. And have you noticed that Canadians are all so kind? I have several friends from Canada and they are the nicest people I know. With three Canadians contributing to this Q&A, I’ve taken bits and pieces of their answers to shorten this post a bit.

Our three Canadians include Melissa who lives in Fort St. John, British Columbia. Fort St. John is a small city located in the northeastern part of the province, close to the Peace River. Melissa’s family moved there when she was 10. She left for college in Vancouver then moved back. Melissa and her husband, Rob, have a soon-to-be 3 year-old name Rhys.

The second Canadian is Shauna who lives in Victoria, British Columbia. She was living in Vancouver for the last two years but recently moved back to Victoria, as it’s definitely what she considers home. She is 26 and newly married. She works as a French teacher. And Shauna loves to cook and play ice hockey.

And the third Canadian is Sandy who lives on Sointula Island on the east side of the north end of Vancouver Island. She has lived there for 11 years. Sandy has been married for 41 years and have three grown children.

What are some traditions or customs of Canada?

Melissa: I live in Northern Canada, and for many people in the North, outdoor activities are a huge part of our culture. In the summer, most families go camping, fishing, boating (river boating is especially popular where I live), hiking, ride ATV’s or horses and have lots of picnics and barbecues with family and friends. In the winter, activities involving snow and ice are huge – hockey and skating, tobogganing, snowmobiling, curling, downhill and cross country skiing. In fact ice is loved so much here (at least we “try” to love it), our city hosts a major ice carving festival every year where professional ice carvers from all over the world come to compete. The sculptures are absolutely stunning, and every year they build better and more elaborate ice slides for the kids in one of the parks in the centre of town.

Shauna: Canadians are definitely known to be extremely friendly and like talking about their feelings. We don’t have a lot of strictly “Canadian” traditions, although watching hockey games could be said to be one.

What is your favorite food that is only served in Canada?

Melissa: Many other Canadians would probably say Poutine, which is French fries with gravy and mozzarella cheese, but while it is delicious, it is most definitely not healthy. Where I live, which is Northern Canada, we eat a lot of wild game (moose, elk, deer) or bison, rather than the traditional beef.

Shauna: Nanaimo bars are delicious. They’re a chocolate-coconut/nutty cookie type base with a layer of buttery icing topped with a layer of hard chocolate. I’m also a big fan of real maple syrup on my pancakes.

What are the living conditions like in your town/city?

Shauna: There are lots of condos and houses. Some of the homes are 100+ years old (that’s old for here). Most of the homes are multi-stories, built mainly with wood, as opposed to the bricks used in more Eastern cities. Open concept living is popular, with an open kitchen and living room. Homes tend to be fairly spacious, with each child in a family having her own bedroom, and there are usually multiple bathrooms. The condo buildings are in general about 4-5 stories high as there are height restrictions in many areas.

Sandy: No apartments and one small seniors complex. Lots of homes are still woodburning. Some were float houses originally. We range from very old to very new and modern log homes. Walking and biking are common modes of transportation but we just about all have cars.

{image by Sandy}

What are some trends in fashion and interior design?

Shauna: Lulu Lemon pants (a brand of yoga wear) are popular amongst young women, as are slim dark wash jeans and flats (shoes). Everyone’s sporting scarves right now – a nice pair of jeans, a sweater, a scarf, and a great pair of knee-high boots is very fashionable. Interior design – lots of browns and taupes on the walls, hardwood flooring, stainless steel appliances, dark dark brown furniture with a cozy area rug. Everyone seems to be excited about clean lines and (what I find to be unfortunate) non-wired lighting, so you have to have lamps in every room.

Sandy: Thrift store chic jeans and shirts very casual We laugh because we might drop something at the thrift store only to have a friend buy it for us because they thought it would suit or to even buy back your own. Mostly we shop down island.

What is the biggest thing happening in the news there?

Melissa: The biggest news here right now is definitely the Olympics. We have two local athletes competing in Vancouver, which is pretty great for the size of our city. The Olympic torch passed through our community about two weeks ago, which was a lot of fun. It was really nice that the Vancouver Olympic Committee did such a good job of trying to get the torch to nearly every community in Canada.

Sandy: We had the torch land in Port Hardy (north end of Vancouver Island) by ferry and all the local talent was out. Talent from more than four communities native dancing, choir and band. One of the hockey teams ran the torch. It was a real local event with fireworks to end the evening.

What is it like to be a mom there compared to other parts of the world?

Melissa: I think that it’s pretty great to be a mom in Canada, or more specifically, British Columbia. There is a lot of opportunity for our children, and there are a lot of resources available to parents. Our province funds a lot of really great (free) programs for infants, toddlers and preschoolers. And because I live in a community that consists largely of young families, there are tons of activities available each week for me to take my toddler to. In fact, I have to be careful that we don’t try and do too much each week!

Melissa and her son Rhys

How are children raised differently there? What do they eat, play with, popular games or toys?

Melissa: I feel that in my community, children are fortunately still encouraged to be quite active. We have lots of parks, walking paths, trails for the summer, three indoor ice complexes (one of which is enormous and brand new) along with an outdoor ice rink in almost every neighbourhood. Our city is quite safe and children will walk or ride their bikes to school, and we have an abundance of high quality athletic programs from hockey to dance to martial arts. There is always space for your child, no waiting lists. However, there is still a lot of unhealthy eating habits, junk food, etc. maybe partly to do with the fact that families are always racing from one activity to the next.

What is something that all moms can learn from Canadian moms?

Melissa: This is by far the most difficult question. Maybe it’s because I am Canadian, and we tend to be rather modest about our accomplishments (unless it’s about winter sports). While we might be incredibly proud of our country and our accomplishments, we try to teach our children to be proud and confident, but also humble. There is always more than one way to do something, and everyone is important. I think that we have a cultural aversion to arrogance, and while yes, there is both poverty and extreme wealth in our country, we aren’t divided into distinguishable classes, and for the most part, everyone has the same opportunities.

» Tell me… Did you learn something new about Canada? What was it? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.

Intriguing Sites: Beyond Snapshots

In Intriguing Sites, Photography on February 18, 2010 at 8:00 am

Many of us fantasize about the ability to take superb photographs but feel limited by our lack of knowledge, skill or equipment. Myself included. I am lucky enough to have a nice DSLR camera. But the knowledge and skill part is where I fall short. My photography experiences includes working one summer with a wedding photographer and taking a film photography and black and white developing class. Both happened while I was in high school. Everything else is pretty much self taught, practice and reading digital photography blogs.

That’s why when I discovered Beyond Snapshots, I was thrilled. The blog only began January 2010, but Rachel and Peta (the two masterminds and photographers behind Beyond Snapshots) has all ready taught me so much. They are sharing photography secrets and tips to help others take pictures beyond the auto mode. My favorite part about the site thus far? The Spotted segment where they take someone’s photograph and provide constructive criticisms. I’m learning how to really look at photographs in an artistic way. At the same time, it is improving my photography. Thanks Rachel and Peta for sharing your talent with us!

» Tell me… What has helped you improve your photography skills?

Polaroids: A Million Pieces

In Polaroid on February 18, 2010 at 7:00 am

Simply Said… Mande in Japan

In Education Week, Simply Said on February 17, 2010 at 10:00 am

One of the best thing about Simply Modern Mom blog is it allows me to get to know you, my dear readers, through your comments, emails and linking to your blog for Project 52: Date Nights. And that was exactly how I met Mande. She is participating in Project 52: Date Nights with us and links to her site each week. Through her blog, I discovered she is an American mother (originally from Wisconsin) living in Japan. Mande’s husband is Japanese. They have two kids, a 3-year-old girl and a 8-month-old boy. Fascinating! I asked her if she would share with us what life and motherhood is like in Japan. So this is a Q&A with Mande in Japan, and she simply said…

How did you meet your husband?

When I was in high school, I came to Japan as an exchange student for a year. He was in my homeroom class and I just fell in love the first moment I saw him! Then, we got to know each other because we had cleaning duty after school and he would always ask me about my life back in the USA. We became friends and I chased him around until I could convince him that we were meant to be together. By the time I left in July, we were very close, but it took another 8 years (and many ups and downs) before we finally decided to get married and live in the same country.

When you were thinking of marrying your husband, did you know that you would end up living in Japan?

No, we were originally planning to live in Wisconsin. Then about 5 months before the wedding, he got promoted at work and asked if we could postpone the wedding. I knew that he had a good job which held a lot of promise for him. Plus, I honestly thought I could adjust to living in Japan better than he would be able to adjust to life in the USA. We were only planning to live in Japan for a few years. Eight years later, I can honestly say that I am glad we made the decision to live here.

What has been the hardest adjustment for you?

First, the lonliness was hard to get used to. It can be difficult to create genuine friendships with Japanese people. Some people still tell me they want to be friends with me so I can teach English to their kids. Second, was the cooking. I love Japanese food, but eating it and cooking it are two very different things. After all these years, I have finally found a way to create hybrid Japanese and American meals that please the entire family.

What do you like about the Japanese culture?

The food is great. It is so much more than just sushi and rice. The Japanese have a real appreciation for food and have sought to import dishes from all over the world and somehow make them their own. This means there are tons of choices – deep-fried foods, French desserts, Chinese dishes, Italian pasta etc. I know that American food is kind of the same way, but I was surprised to find different imports in Japan – Italian pasta like Pepperocino that cannot be found in the USA. Delicious!

What is it like to be an American living in Japan?

I think most people are curious about what life is really like in the USA and want to know what people in small-town America do. To them, going to a small town for vacation sounds so relaxing. I think once Japanese people get past the fact that they are interacting with a foreigner they don’t seem to care which country you are from.

What is it like to be a mom and raise children in Japan?

The Japanese government offers support in the way of mom/baby groups, discussion forums about child-raising, lectures about nutrition, etc. The daycare system is fabulous in my city. Children generally start kindergarten at age 3 and go for 3 years.

The foreign community is helpful too. After moving here, I joined AFWJ (Association of Foreign Wives married to Japanese men). Through that, I have made many friends and there is a bi-monthly Journal along with countless e-groups where one can go for support and friendship. I certainly don’t feel alone here!

Do you speak Japanese? And which language do you speak to your children?

I learned some Japanese in high school and then I majored in Japanese in college. I can hold my own in a conversation. It is especially important to me to be able to communicate with my in-laws, my daughter’s daycare and my employer. My husband and I use both English and Japanese when we communicate.

I try to speak English to my kids, but my daughter, who attends daycare, tends to use Japanese a lot. She understands most of what I say and she does answer me in English frequently, but I can tell that she is more comfortable with Japanese. This is something I will need to work on more as she gets older. A group of parents and I started a bilingual group, and we get together once a month to do English activities with the kids.

What is parenting like there in Japan? Do they have different mind sets and beliefs about how to raise children?

I get the impression that the Japanese are a little more concerned about education from an early age. Some kids start taking abacus lessons from an early age, which is really shocking to me. Kids who want to go to a certain junior high begin taking after-school lessons from 4th grade. Other kids start taking after-school lessons in 9th grade to prepare them for high school entrance exams. Here, it is all about the exams and licenses!

How do you integrate cultures in yours and your children’s lives?

My husband and his family takes charge of the Japanese holidays like children’s day and New Years. I take charge of the American holidays and we compromise on how to celebrate birthdays. I would also have to admit that the inside of our house is pretty “Americanized”. We always have English TV on, English music and we try to speak English most of the time. Most of the books are in English too. I feel that my daughter gets enough Japanese culture outside of our home.

What are favorite children’s snacks they eat there in Japan?

Shrimp flavored rice crackers come to mind, but the snack section of the supermarket is full of character-related items. My daughter’s favorite snacks are chocolate milk and cookies.

What are some of the popular Japanese toys?

The Japanese version of Barbie is called Licca-chan. Disney stuff is very popular here, even for older kids and young adults and so is anime-related products. Legos are big for the boys. Elementary school-age boys are into playing with tops.

What is something all moms can learn from Japanese moms?

Japanese moms seem to be very detail-oriented. They make obento (lunch boxes) for their kids which are really works of art! Somehow, they create funny faces or animal shapes out of food to make it more fun for their kids to eat. I have learned that children are very precious and an important part of society. The Japanese understand how valuable they will be in the future, so they try to give them a good base now.

» Tell me… Have you ever been to Japan? What did you learn about Japan from Mande? To read other articles in the Education Week segment, click on the logo below.


Welcome Sponsor: Sevi Designs

In Sponsors on February 17, 2010 at 9:00 am

Welcome, welcome another sponsor of Simply Modern Mom… Sevi Designs by the talented Katherine. The Sevi Designs shop is full of adorable handmade goodies such as wallets, clutches, crayon rolls, key wristlets, necklaces and more. All her products made from gorgeous fabric. Katherine also writes a blog about handmade and craft inspirations. Please visit her shop. I think you’ll enjoy it.

» Tell Me…

In Random on February 17, 2010 at 7:00 am

Have you noticed I’ve been asking you questions? At the end of most posts, I’ve been asking you to tell me what you think about the post topic. It’s a way for me to encourage you to comment. Why would I want you to comment? Because I honestly enjoy reading what you have to say.

And all of you who are reading Simply Modern Mom through your email or RSS reader, please click through to the actual post to comment. I have been receiving some of your comments in my email. Which I don’t mind reading your comments in email, but I think other readers would like to read what you have to say too.

Lastly, I try to reply to comments, especially ones where you ask me questions. Let’s have conversations.

Project 52: Snow Date

In Food, Project 52: Date Nights on February 16, 2010 at 9:00 am

It probably happened to you, too. I felt bad. It was Valentine’s Day weekend. Nathan had planned for us to go out for dinner and to watch a high school basketball game. We even had babysitters. But then this happened Friday afternoon…

Plans ruined by weather once again. It came down so fast, we were showered with four inches of snow in four hours. I haven’t seen snow like this in the South before. And because we live in the South, everything was closed due to snow. No one can drive in this condition. Since we were snowed in, Nathan came up with a last-minute date. Lesson #1: Even his dates fall through sometimes.

Nathan’s plan B: Watch the opening ceremony of the Winter Olympics. And what else to do with all this snow than to make snow ice cream. Lesson #2: Make the best of weather conditions by eating it.

It was a nice relaxing date. It was exactly what I needed because it had been a busy week. And the best part? I just sat there and stared at the TV snuggling next to Nathan. I didn’t do anything else. That rarely happens. I am not one who just watches TV. I am a multi-tasker. Lesson #3: It’s nice to veg out in front of the TV every once in a while.

Nathan said: I was taken back by the snow and had to scramble to come up with something for our date. I think from now on I’ll have a backup date just in case something like this comes up unexpectedly. That said, I really enjoyed watching the opening ceremonies of the Vancouver Winter Olympics. I grew up in the northwest and have been to Vancouver a couple of times so it was cool to have the Olympics there. I also enjoy watching Olympic events such as snowboarding and speed skating. A relaxing night snuggling with Tiffany and small chit chat was very nice.

How about you? Did the weather affect your date? Tell me about it… If you link up and don’t see your link on there, refresh the page. If it is still not there, try it again. If it gets on there twice by accident, I can always delete the second one. Want to join Project 52: Date Night? That’s great! Start anytime. Go here for details about the project and print the pledge. When you link up, please remember…

  • Keep it clean and family friendly. This is a family friendly site. Anything inappropriate will be deleted.
  • It needs to be a date. Not your latest projects or pictures of your beautiful children. I do love reading about your projects and learning about your family. But this linky is for date nights and date nights only. It is for us to exchange date night ideas.
  • Link to a specific blog post about your date that week. Don’t just link to your site’s home page. It needs to be the direct link to the post. Anything not directly linked to the post will be deleted.
  • Link back to Simply Modern Mom or put the Project 52: Date Nights button on your site. It’s common courtesy. Please be nice.

Project 52 Date Nights

When the Weather Outside Is Frightful

In Life on February 16, 2010 at 8:00 am

When outside looks like this…

We hang out at home and do this…

Then we go out to do this…

When our fingers and noses freeze, we come back in and take this…

And contain it all into this…

Busy day, huh? It’s not often we get this much snow here. When it does happen, everyone is homebound.

Tell me… What do you do when you’re homebound?

Photographer’s Bag… Kelly Moore

In Products on February 16, 2010 at 7:00 am

{image by Kelly Moore}

My newest love. Kelly Moore is fabulous. She is taking camera bags to a whole new level. It’s about time. But look. It’s multifunctional.

A Valentine to Me

In Random on February 15, 2010 at 12:12 pm

You know you are married to a techie when…

Your husband emails you your Valentine and it says…

You may think it’s tacky. But I got a good laugh out of it. Thanks, Nathan!

Teaching Children Culture

In Education Week, Life on February 15, 2010 at 9:00 am


I don’t know if you’ve noticed. I’m Chinese. Born in Taiwan. Raised in the U.S. I am as Americanized as anyone can get. Then I spent my childhood in Hawaii a place with a good blend of cultures.

Since I am so Americanized, it means I don’t do a good job teaching my children about the Chinese culture. I do give myself credit in the sense that I expose my children to cultural experiences. I believe it is important for my children to learn about people and the world around them. And when Kaye was just under 2, we all flew to Taiwan to visit my mother’s family.

I am excited that so many Americans are looking into other countries for adoption opportunities. By the time Kaye and Elle go to school, they won’t be the only Chinese (half Chinese) in their classes. How exciting!

Whether you are in a multicultural family, adopted children from other countries or wanted to teach your children about the world, here are some ideas…

1. Attend cultural events in your community.

Be in the know. Look in the local papers. Research online. Talk to your neighbors. This is a great way for children to learn about dances, music, food, celebrations and traditions. Last year we took Kaye and Elle to Greek Fest. We also attend Chinese New Year Festivals where the girls watch the dragon dance and taste Chinese food not available in restaurants.

2. Visit cultural towns.

China Town, Little Italy, Bavarian towns, alpine villages. Try them. They’re fun.

3. Find origins of things around us.

Architectural designs, food, clothing, ideas. Fact or fiction: Chinese fortune cookies, is it really Chinese? French fries, did it come from France?

4. Famous people from other countries.

Not exactly celebrities, although that would work too.

5. Invite someone over who is from another country.

Know someone from another country? Know someone who has a friend from another country? Invite them over to share their culture and traditions with your family.

6. Incorporate culture in the meals at home.

Have a culture week where you make meals of a different culture each day of the week.

» Tell me… What are some ways you teach your children about culture?

Education Week: Cultures & Olympics

In Education Week on February 15, 2010 at 8:00 am

It’s Winter Olympics 2010 in Vancouver. I love the Olympics. I can proudly say I have attended Olympic events before. Check that off my bucket list. To me, Olympics is a time where the world come together. So many amazing stories to be told as athletes perform with one goal in mind – to do their best.

In celebration of the Olympics, I thought it would be fun for us to learn about other countries. What its like to live elsewhere. And what we can learn from mothers around the world. Did you know that Simply Modern Mom has 19 percent international readers? I’ve asked a few SMM readers to share with us what it’s like to be there and not here.

This Education Week will actually lasts two weeks – the duration of the Winter Olympics. Also, throughout the week I’ll post ideas to get children involved in learning culture and in the Olympics.

Even our date night last week was Olympic related. More on that tomorrow at the Project 52: Date Night linking party. Are you ready for it?

Tell me… Did you watch the opening ceremony Friday night? What did you think?

How To Love Your Children

In Life on February 12, 2010 at 9:01 am

Elle kissing baby.

Of course you love your children. Duh. Hugs, kisses, snuggles, I love you’s. Said and done. But ever get the feeling there might be something more you can do? There is. And it’s actually quite simple. All listed below.

Ever read or watched The Nanny Diaries? That was me a few years ago. I was a nanny in NYC. And my experiences were similar to those written about in the book. Never read or watched it? Let me tell you about it. Not the book. I’ll tell you about my personal experience being a nanny at age 18 and 19. Why would you want to know? Because in the end, you’ll know how to really love your children. The kind of love they want and need from their moms, well and dads too.

The summers after high school graduation and after my freshman year at college I was a small town girl in the big city, New York City to be exact. Both time I nannied the same family. A father who worked all day and night. A mother who stayed at home but still had a nanny and a maid. Two boys and a girl, aged 8, 7 and 1. They lived in a nice home, drove extravagant cars and had everything they ever wanted. Everything except love.

How could I tell there wasn’t enough love in that family? I could tell because the boys would be in tears when the dad left for work each day, and all they wanted was their dad to throw a ball with them. Although the mom was home with the children, she spent most of her time getting herself groomed, shopping or talking to her friends on the phone. The parents purchased anything the children wanted – bikes, roller blades, basketballs, baseballs – but didn’t teach them how to use it. It all sat in a pile of other never been used things their parents bought them. No sign of affection at all in that family.

Then the only time the wife and kids had with the father was when he scheduled once a week lunch or dinner with them. The whole family dined at a fancy restaurant, nanny in tow of course, and ate a meal in dead silence. The mom and dad sat away from each other and had nothing to say unless they were disagreeing. I eventually learned the father was having an affair and the mother knew about it.

Being the nanny, the kids were afraid to get close to me because they were afraid to love or accept anyone. They were rejected by their own parents for love and affection. However, once they warmed up to me, they were thirsty for attention. They were attached to me at all times because I gave them what all children long for – love.

I knew I would be different with my own children. And I am. But sometime, I need a good reminder of the basic needs of my kids. Love. And not in any form that can be bought.

1. Teach them something new.

They are fascinated by new things. Teach them a new skill and you will grow closer to them.

2. One-on-one time.

Even when they are teenagers. They may not act like they want to hang out with their parents, but they need that undivided attention from you every once in a while.

3. Listen intently.

Just listen to what they have to say without giving feedback or comments unless asked. As parents, we tend to jump in and try to fix things or correct them when they are wrong or give them our opinion on everything. Stop. And then listen.

4. Put the spotlight on them.

Not in a way that is embarrassing. Spotlight them with the things they are good at doing. It will make them feel special.

5. Goof off with them.

A great excuse for you to act like a child. Let loose. Get dirty. Act silly.

6. Encourage their talents.

Talents don’t have to be in the form of singing, dancing or art. I can come in forms of communication, listening, writing, math, curiosity and even generosity. Help them strengthen their talents.

7. Cut them some slack.

It is not easy being a kid or teen these days. Allow them do to some things their way, even if it is not your preferred way. It doesn’t mean it’s the wrong way.

8. Be interested in their interests.

They will go through phases of special interests. Learn it with them. Take part in their creativity and imagination.

9. Take them to a new place.

Go out. See new things. Learn something new. They will remember the experience when they are old. It doesn’t have to be anywhere fancy – a new park, an ice cream shop, a museum, a hike.

10. Build confidence.

Kids need to know who they are. They need to know they are loved. They need to believe in themselves. Help them succeed. Help them learn from their mistakes. Help them have faith in themselves. It will make a difference in the rest of their lives.

Tell me… How does your children like to be loved?

Polaroids: Stirring In the Kitchen

In Polaroid on February 12, 2010 at 8:00 am

Friday’s 5 at 5: What I Love About Nathan

In Friday's 5 at 5 on February 12, 2010 at 5:00 am

I can brag about my husband right? Valentine’s Day is approaching. I have more than 5 reasons why I am in love with Nathan. Maybe 7. OK, 10. Since you’re probably not into PDA (public display of affection), I’ll keep it at 5.

  1. “It’ll be fine.” Just like his father, who is also a great man. “It’ll be fine” is their life motto. Their mantra in the mornings and before bed. It can be frustrating when I don’t think it’ll be fine. However, it is exactly what I need in my life – sometimes. He keeps me sane with his chilled personality.
  2. Tech support. One of the advantages to being married to a tech guru is he is my tech support. Well, he ends up being everyone’s 24/7 tech support. But he was mine first.
  3. The girls are all over him. That’s right. The girls… our girls. Those two love their daddy, and that’s how I like it.
  4. A handy man. I can also thank his father for this one. Nathan may be a techie, but he still knows his way with tools and fixing things. Now that’s sexy.
  5. Selflessness. He cares about the wellbeing and happiness of his girls (me and our kids) first and foremost. He puts us first in everything he does and never ever complains or tries to claim credit. He always asks, “What can I do to help?” That’s a man. That’s a real man.

See why I am in love with this man? Love him to a million pieces times 10. Happy Valentine’s Day!

Welcome Sponsor The Vintage Pearl

In Sponsors on February 11, 2010 at 10:00 am


Welcome another sponsor on Simply Modern Mom.

The Vintage Pearl is run by stay-at-home mom, Erin. She makes gorgeous customizable sterling silver jewelry and keepsakes. Great personalized gift ideas that are all handmade. She offers font and graphic options for you to design your own jewelry to best fit your style. Erin also have a blog where you can keep up with her business, photography and family. Make sure you take time to check out her shop today!

Simply Said… Stephanie from Somewhat Simple

In Crafts, Simply Said on February 11, 2010 at 9:00 am

I have been a fan of the fabric flower for a long time. I have yet to make one. But I’m glad that Stephanie from Somewhat Simple is here to show us her version of fabric flower on a headband. Perfect for me because I bought some headbands around Christmas time and they are still sitting in my craft closet. This is what Stephanie simply said…

Hello! My name is Stephanie and I am so excited to be here today! I just love Tiffany and her blog- it is so fresh and fun here, isn’t it?!

My little corner of cyberspace is called somewhat simple, and it is the perfect place for me to share with the world my creative side.

The tutorial I have for you today is my take on a very popular item right now- fabric flowers! These are so easy and so fun to make. You cannot mess them up. There are a million ways to make them, but here is how I make them.

Supplies:

  • Scissors
  • needle and thread
  • glue gun
  • button
  • headband
  • 1 piece of rectangular fabric, approx. 1/2 inch by 1 inch
  • 6 fabric circles, 2 large and 4 small

*You can use any size circles you want, just make sure you have 2 of the same size for the larger circles and 4 of the same size that are smaller. You can use all the same fabric, but for this I am using denim for the large circles and a cute print for the smaller ones.

Ok, here is a video I made to show you how to assemble your flower- it’s easy, easy, easy.

Once you stitch your petals and your button in the center, you get to decide what to do with this pretty little flower. I decided to make some headbands. Here is one more video of me showing you the easiest way I found to attach your flower to a plastic headband.

You can find headbands super cheap at Wal-Mart (4 for $1) and also the dollar store. No need to spend a ton.

And that’s it! So easy and super cute!
Doesn’t really match my 3-year-old’s purple Jonas Brothers PJs, but thats OK!

Thanks so much for letting me visit today! I’d love for all of you to come and say hello over at somewhat simple! If you come today you can join in the fun of our “Strut Your Stuff Link Party”. Come show off your latest creation and enter to win an awesome prize each and every Thursday!!

Thanks for having me, Tiffany! I love it here!

Steph

Wisdom From Leonardo da Vinci

In Arts, Inspirations on February 11, 2010 at 8:00 am

It was a cloudy and rainy Saturday last week. My cabin fever temperature was around 105 degrees. Time for an excursion. Leonardo da Vinci was at the art museum. That sounded interesting. No photography was allowed in the da Vinci exhibit. Understandable.

Leonardo da Vinci was a genius. More than just in art. He said…

“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”

I want to plaster that phrase all over my house. He had such great insights into life having lived an eventful life himself. He also said…

“Poor is the pupil who does not surpass his master.”

“Where the spirit does not work with the hand, there is no art.”

“Art is never finished, only abandoned.”


As da Vinci attempted to create the world’s largest bronze horse statue, he had this on his mind…

“He who lets time pass does not grow in virtue: the more I think of it the more I grieve. No man has it in him to be virtuous who will give up honor for gain. Good fortune is of no avail to he who does not toil.”

“Gluttony, sleep and idleness in bed have banished every virtue from the world. So that our bewildered nature is almost overcome by debauchery. Henceforth, it would be well to rouse yourself from sleep, the Master said, because lying down will not bring thee to Fame; nor staying beneath the covers. He who, without Fame, burns his life to waste, leaves no more vestige of himself on earth than wind-blown smoke or the foam upon the sea.”

Is that great or what? What do you think about the quotes?

*Shey*[B] Camera Strap Sponsor & Giveaway

In Giveaway, Sponsors on February 10, 2010 at 9:00 am

Announcing Simply Modern Mom’s newest sponsor…

*Shey*[B] makes and sells the most adorable camera strap covers for SLR cameras. Really. She has fabric choices to fit any style. And you can accessorize it with pockets, padding, ruffles or even a bow tie. How cute is that?

Shealynn, owner of *Shey*[B] came up with the idea for a camera strap cover when hers was rough on her neck after a photo shoot. And now she is come up with a solution for every camera strap problem to make the photographer’s experience a more comfortable one.

Shealynn is a photographer herself with a blog, The Benner Daily. You have to see the photography on her site. She’s good.

**This giveaway is closed. Thanks for entering.**

For the giveaway, *Shey*[B] is giving away a $30 gift certificate! Get ready to doll up your camera strap. Entries will close Wednesday, Feb. 17, at 10 p.m. EST. I will announce the winner on Friday, Feb. 19.

To enter, do ANY of the following. For multiple entries, do more than one and make sure you leave a separate comment for each entry.

  1. Leave a comment below and tell me what motivates you to take pictures.
  2. Go to *Shey*[B] and tell me which camera strap you would get if you won.
  3. Blog about this giveaway. Then leave a link to your post in a separate comment.
  4. ‘Share’ this giveaway by doing one of the ‘Share’ options below (Twitter, Facebook, Kirtsy, StumbleUpon or email).

Want to be a Simply Modern Mom sponsor, too? Email advertise{at}simplymodernmom{dot}com for rates and view the advertising page for more information.

Party Decoration Idea: Photo Lanterns

In Crafts, Tutorials on February 10, 2010 at 8:00 am

As if you haven’t heard enough about Elle’s Chinese birthday party, this is my last post about a last minute decoration idea for the party. I made paper lanterns with photos from her 1 year photo shoot hanging from the ceiling. Quick decoration requires a quick tutorial.

Supplies:

  • paper
  • something round for a circular pattern
  • photos
  • glue stick
  • string
  • clear tape

1. Make paper lantern. Fold lengthwise. Make 1″ marks all the way across the folded end of the paper. Then cut from fold to about 1″ away  from the open end of the paper.

2. Glue the two short ends of the paper to make the lantern.

3. Glue a strip of paper as the handle at the top end of the lantern.

4. Using something circular to trace circles on the photo. Then use the same pattern to trace circles on matching paper. Cut them out.

5. Using about a yard of strong per lantern hanging, tie string at the handle of the lantern. Make sure to leave about 12 inches of string above the handle to hang from ceiling. Put the string through the inside of the lantern.

6. Glue photo to the circular paper backing with the remaining string in between the photo and the backing. Do to both photos or however many photos you want to dangle under the lantern. On the last photo, make sure the string ends in the middle so you don’t have a string coming out of the bottom of the photo.

7. Hang from ceiling with tape.

What are some of your party decoration ideas? I need ideas for the next birthday party… Nathan’s 30th.

Project 52: Bucket List

In Project 52: Date Nights on February 9, 2010 at 9:00 am

First, I want to welcome all the new couples joining us for Project 52: Date Nights! And thanks everyone for telling your friends and family about this great cause… improving our relationships with the one we love. If you are joining Project 52: Date Nights, please view some of our past dates and meet other couples who are participating by clicking at the linking party after each post. Then please link your date each week. I sincerely love reading about your dates. I visit each link and comment on your blogs. And if you have a private blog or simply don’t have one, then comment and tell us about your dates each week. Or even email me tiffany {at} simplymodernmom {dot} com. I am so inspired by all of your stories.

Moving on. About our date. Boy, am I relieved that it is Nathan’s month to plan it. It is one less thing for me to worry about this month. I just show up. Great. Plus I was afraid Nathan might get sick my dates because they were let’s-talk-about-this dates. You know guys. They don’t always want to talk. Lesson #1: Taking turns planning dates allow each person to plan activities they enjoy doing.

Nathan thought the bucket list idea might be fun. Not so much thinking about when we’ll kick the bucket. But more on the idea of discussing our dreams and planning experiences. Few things on the list we all ready knew about each other. Others were new. Lesson #2: Even though we have been together for over 6 years, we still had new things to learn about each other.

By looking at the pictures of our bucket lists, did you learn something about us? He is logical. I am creative. We work well together with that. Lesson #3: We don’t have to be exactly the same to be good together. In fact, we use our differences to strengthen each other.

Nathan said: I chose the easy route this week with a date from Tiffany’s date ideas list. I thought this would be a good way for me to ease into the date planning. It wasn’t bad at all! It was actually kinda fun to spruce up the house, get everything clean and orderly making it a little more special than just another night around the house. It was fun to get to know each other better and find out what values and experiences we want before, you know, we kick the bucket.

Now time for you to link up your date. Read the rules below. And if you link up and don’t see your link on there, refresh the page. If it is still not there, try it again. If it gets on there twice by accident, I can always delete the second one. Want to join Project 52: Date Night? That’s great! Start anytime. Go here for details about the project and print the pledge.

When you link up, please remember…

  • Keep it clean and family friendly. This is a family friendly site. Anything inappropriate will be deleted.
  • It needs to be a date. Not your latest projects or pictures of your beautiful children. I do love reading about your projects and learning about your family. But this linky is for date nights and date nights only. It is for us to exchange date night ideas.
  • Link to a specific blog post about your date that week. Don’t just link to your site’s home page. It needs to be the direct link to the post. Anything not directly linked to the post will be deleted.
  • Link back to Simply Modern Mom or put the Project 52: Date Nights button on your site. It’s common courtesy. Please be nice.

Project 52 Date Nights

Hello Readers, Where Are You From?

In Random on February 8, 2010 at 10:42 pm

Hello Simply Modern Mom Readers,

I am looking for international readers to do a Q&A on Simply Modern Mom. This is only for those currently living outside of the United States. Leave a comment below or email me at tiffany{at}simplymodernmom{dot}com if you are interested or if you would like more info.

Thanks,

Tiffany Bird

P.S. If you are not an international reader, but would like to tell me where you are from, that’s great too! Leave a comment below. I love learning more about my readers.

Birthday Fortunes In a Jar

In Life, Tutorials on February 8, 2010 at 9:00 am

First birthdays are special, even though Elle will never remember it. I took ample pictures then made her a fortune cookie jar full of birthday fortunes, or wishes, from her loved ones. The fortunes are to be kept unopened until a later moment in time, like her 16th birthday party. Similar to the concept of a time capsule. And fortune cookies because her birthday party was based on a Chinese theme.

The intention was to set up a table where guests would write birthday fortunes to Elle as they entered the party. Great idea, but it didn’t go as planned. Majority of the guests arrive an hour before party time, while we were still in the process of setting up decorations and cooking the meal. Oh well. Plan B. I had everyone email me their fortunes to Elle, including all of Nathan’s family who lives everywhere but here.

Supplies:

  • cardstock paper
  • glue
  • something circular as a template (3″ diameter)
  • scissors
  • rubber band (optional)
  • jar

1. Gather your paper. Use something circular and at least 3″ in diameter (depending on how big you want your cookies to turn out) to trace circles on the back of your paper. I used a coaster.

2. Cut out the circles and the fortunes. I printed the fortunes then cut them into strips.

3. Make a crease at the center of your circle about 1 1/2″ with the wrong side out (the paper patterns are on the inside touching each other when you fold to make the crease. Don’t fold the entire circle in half, just make a crease at the center.

4. With the crease pointing at you vertically, put glue at the edge of the circle going only about 1/3 of the circle. Make sure your crease is at the center point of where your gluing.

5. Place your fortune paper, folded, in the middle of the circle.

6. Fold circle in half touching the no-glue side to the side with glue. But don’t press down at the fold. Use laundry pins to hold the sides down.

7. This is where the crease comes in handy. Puff up your paper by pushing down on the crease and it should bend in the middle at the crease line. And it will open the holes at the two corners (see second picture below). Continuing to bend the crease until the paper takes shape of a fortune cookie.

8. If your cookie doesn’t hold it shape, put a little bit of glue at the middle of the crease line then use a rubber band to hold the cookie at the bend together. Allow for the glue to dry then remove rubber band.

9. Put it all in a jar then you can label or decorate the jar.

Linked A Soft Place.

Elle’s 1st Birthday

In Random on February 8, 2010 at 8:00 am

It really turned out well. After all the back and forth on whether or not I should do a party, I’m glad we did one but kept it small. Her birthday was actually on Thursday. But since Nathan had school that evening, we took her out to McDonalds (or Kaye calls it Ol’ McDonalds) for lunch. Elle is like her mommy. We love French fries.

We saved her Chinese birthday party for Friday evening. Thanks to all those who paid her birthday wishes. Here’s my big girl at her birthday party…

standoff between Elle and gifts.

Elle eating frosting.

Polaroids: Those Eyes

In Polaroid on February 5, 2010 at 9:01 am

Going Somewhat Simple Today

In Featured on February 5, 2010 at 9:00 am

I know, I was just at Make and Takes yesterday. And today I’m over at Somewhat Simple sharing a tutorial from Elle’s birthday. Speaking of Elle, isn’t she cute?

If you’re new to Simply Modern Mom… Hello, new friend! I hope you’ll stay and look around and come back often!

Happy weekend!

Friday’s 5 at 5: Other Uses for a Timer

In Friday's 5 at 5 on February 5, 2010 at 5:00 am

{image by Tiffany Bird}

A timer is not only useful in the kitchen. It is a great tool for teaching children…

  1. Sharing time. Help children learn to take turns sharing by setting the timer. He plays with the toy for 10 minutes and when the timer goes off, it’ll be her turn.
  2. Quiet time. Tell the kids they have to play in their rooms or have a set quiet time. When the timer rings, quiet time is over. Do they have a timer that can set time to last more than an hour?
  3. Clean up time. Make picking up toys a game by setting the timer. See if the kids can pick up their toys before the timer goes off.
  4. Dinner time. Kaye has the hardest time eating her dinner. It takes her over an hour to eat a small plate of food. She is too busy talking and playing around with her food. To help her learn that dinner time doesn’t last 2 hours, we set the timer and when it rings, dinner is over. Her plate gets taken away.
  5. Homework time. Break up homework time for the kids. Set timer for 20-30 minutes then allow for a little break. Then get back to work for another 20-30 minutes. Like the Pomodoro Technique.

How about you? What do you use a timer for?

Blog Swapping Today

In Featured on February 4, 2010 at 10:56 am

I have Emily and Anne from Bloom posting on Simply Said today, and I’m over at Make and Takes talking about how to implement Project 52: Date Nights into your lives… it is doable. Come read.

If you came from Make and Takes, welcome! Come in. Have a seat. Stay a while. And I hope you will become a regular here on Simply Modern Mom.

Simply Said… Emily & Anne from Bloom

In Crafts, Holidays, Simply Said on February 4, 2010 at 9:00 am

Today, I want you to meet Emily and Anne of Bloom. They are two amazing mothers who write a blog covering every aspect of motherhood – budgeting, simple living, healthy eating and numerous ideas for entertaining kids. Over the course of time, I had the privilege to become blogging friends with these two ladies. I hope to meet them one day. Both Emily and Anne simply said…

Pop-up Valentines with your toddler or pre-schooler (by Emily)

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It’s almost time for heart day! My little Henry and I have had so much fun making pop-up Valentine’s Greetings for our lovies this year. We found the simple step-by-step tutorial on Robert Sabuda’s website. A pop-up V-day greeting fit for a Queen (or a grandma)!

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Supplies

Template from Robert Sabuda

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Let little hands help with the tracing.

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Fold along the dotted lines, glue to a blank card and... ta-da!

Have fun making lots of variations. Then we glued a matching heart on the front of each card. And smiled as we imagined our dear ones opening up their greetings to find a cheerful Valentine’s surprise!

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Watercolor Valentines with your school-age children (by Anne)

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To help my niece, Katie, with her valentines for school, I revamped an idea from my 2nd-grade-teacher days. I gave Katie a sheet of watercolor paper (regular white paper will do nearly as well) and a set of watercolors. After a quick lesson on warm vs. cool colors, I gave Katie three guidelines for her painting…

  1. This is abstract art, so just let your brush flow.  We’re not painting an object.
  2. You must cover the entire page and leave no white showing.
  3. Stick to the warm colors.

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Katie  enjoyed playing with the different hues and saturation levels with her reds, pinks, yellows and oranges then came up with this. As a side note, every mother should invest in a vinyl ‘project’ tablecloth!

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Once the painting dried, we began making the cards.  There are two ways to use the watercolor designs.  For the first version, we used a cookie cutter to trace a heart.  Cut out the heart and glued on the first card. Cardstock or construction paper will also work fine, use what you have.

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For the second version, we used a cookie cutter to trace a heart shape on a red paper then cut it out making a window. Next we glued a piece of the painting to the backside of the window covering the opening. I love the way this one looks, but it is considerably more time-consuming.

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The results: 1) A child who understands the difference between warm and cool colors, and has experience with blending watercolors. 2) A set of valentines that look far more darling than anything you could find in a box!

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Thank you so much, Tiffany! We loved being part of your amazing site for a day!
xo,
Em and Anne

6 At Home Activities for Toddlers & Pre-School Kids

In Entertainment, Inspirations on February 3, 2010 at 12:39 pm

So, another 6 weeks of winter according to Punxsutawney Phil, huh? I was through with winter about a week ago. Cabin fever settling in on us. I dug through old pictures and found activities Kaye and I did last winter to beat the stuck-at-home blahs. It was nostalgic to look at pictures of Kaye from last winter. She was so little and cute. And what do you know, some of it has to do with reusing household items. Kid friendly, eco friendly.

1. Box car.

We had a ton of diaper boxes lying around. So Kaye and I got a little creative and made a box car using packing tape and paper plates as wheels and steering wheel. Then she sat in it while I pushed her around the house racing in her car.

2. Color your own fort.

I taped a few diaper boxes together to make a little fort for Kaye to color and draw. She called it her princess castle.

3. Make a shoebox alphabet fishing game.

Kaye helped me paint the inside of the shoe box with blue paint to make the water look. I made a fish pattern, traced it 26 times. Had Kaye color and decorate the fish. Then I wrote each letter of the alphabet on each fish. Cut out. Put a metal paper clip on each fish. Then found a couple sticks outside. Tied a string to it as the fishing line. Finally, glued a small magnet to the end of the dangling line. It helped teach her the alphabet.

4. Magic carpet ride.

This was a game Kaye played at my parents’ house. Kaye hopped on a rug, held on to dear life and my dad pulled on the other end of the rug. They went all over the house like that. She laughed so hard.

5. Cookie cutter and wearable Play Dough.

Make bracelets, anklets or use cookie cutters to cut fun shapes.

6. Ball pit.

Your kids will love me for this. You will hate me for this. We had a small inflatable pool and filled it with balls. I purchased special ball pit balls at Wal-Mart or you can find it at Target, too. I do have to say, I was happy to put the balls away when the little pool popped a year later. I was tired of picking up 300 balls day after day. However, my kids and their friends all loved it. It was by far the most popular toy in our house. And in the summer, you can pack away the balls and fill the pool with water, in your backyard of course.

Intriguing Sites: Men in Aprons

In Intriguing Sites on February 3, 2010 at 9:00 am

I love it when my husband cooks. He may not be a gourmet chef, but don’t mind getting break from cooking. It’s a rare occasion when we eat out, so I am in the kitchen at least three times a day, seven days a week. It is exhausting planning meals, getting groceries, searching for recipes, preparing the meals, cooking the meals and cleaning up after meals.

Men in Aprons is a fun site with cleaver cooking ideas and recipes for men. But I think there are things from that site I would like to try. If anything, it makes cooking a little more of a lighthearted task. It’s for male cooks at any level whether he needs to learn to how make scrambled eggs or find tips to grilling. Ziploc omelette, Hatch Chile Baked Mac & Cheese or Mission Moon Rocks.

Hey guys! Here’s a Valentine’s Day idea… Make your wife a special Valentine’s Day dinner by using Men in Aprons. You’re welcome.

Ladies, does your husband/boyfriend cook? What is your favorite dish he makes?

Project 52: Caramel Fondue & Recipe

In Food, Project 52: Date Nights on February 2, 2010 at 9:00 am

Nathan, Mike & Mike's girlfriend (who also lives in our neighborhood)

First 5 weeks of date nights done. That’s an accomplishment. Give yourself a pat on the back. I’m just glad that Nathan will be in charge of next month. It’s hard work coming up with a different idea week after week. Although, I hope you didn’t miss my guest post at The Mother Huddle where I listed 16 at-home date ideas. Yup. Four months worth of date ideas.

This week, we had to rearrange our date night. We scheduled Elle’s little family birthday party for Friday night (our regular date night) because all those invited guests had previous engagements Saturday night. Luckily, we didn’t have anything planned for Saturday night so that’s when we had our date. Lesson #1: Sometimes we do have to work around other people’s schedules and not just our own.

The day of our date, I still had no clue what I was going to do. I spent the entire week planning and putting together Elle’s birthday party. I also had a meeting Saturday morning. So it came down to the last minute, when I was making dinner. I pulled out our rice cooker that sat next to our fondue pot. Ta-da! We called our neighbor Mike and invited him and his girlfriend over for a double date fondue style. Lesson #2: Inspiration for date ideas can come from anywhere.

I concocted a caramel fondue from a caramel sauce recipe my best friend, Julia, gave me. Caramel because I don’t like chocolate. No, really. It’s true. I am a chocolate hater. The recipe is actually for a caramel sauce to drizzle over cakes. I took the recipe, added a personal Tiffany Bird touch and used it for fondue. Can’t have fondue without great conversations. We had exactly that. Then we played Super Mario Brothers on the Wii. It was so fun. Highly recommended – caramel fondue and Super Mario Brothers. Lesson #3: Keep trying. After attempting to play the Wii for date night two other times, third time was the charm.

Nathan said: It has been a long time since we had a fondue night. We used to have fondue a lot while we were both in school. It was fun to involve another couple in our date night and we have some great neighbors! Fondue is all about eating and chatting so it makes a great date and gives you time to decompress from a busy week. Now I need to figure out what we are going to do for the next date night.

What? What was that? You want my delicious caramel fondue recipe? I should make you beg because it is that good. Try it, you will thank me for it.

Caramel Fondue
3/4 cup granulated sugar
3/4 cup packed brown sugar
3/4 cup heavy whipping cream
3/4 cup butter, cut into tablespoon sizes
1 tsp vanilla extract

In a medium sauce pan, put all ingredients in and cook on medium heat. Stir and mix well until the butter is melted and a caramel brown color. Continue to heat on stove on medium heat until it begins to boil. Then pour into fondue pot and allow it to boil for another 5 minutes or until the sauce has thicken slightly. Suggested dippers: pound cake cut in cubes, bananas, marshmallows, strawberries, apples.

How you have a great date night last week? Link up or comment below and tell us all about it. I love to read about your dates. Have you been reading each other’s dates? There has been some amazing stories.

Want to join in on the fun? Learn more about Project 52: Date Nights, sign the pledge, or read past dates and meet back here every Tuesday for our linking party. You can start any time.

When you link up, please remember…

  • Keep it clean and family friendly. This is a family friendly site. Anything inappropriate will be deleted.
  • It needs to be a date. Not your latest projects or pictures of your beautiful children. I do love reading about your projects and learning about your family. But this linky is for date nights and date nights only. It is for us to exchange date night ideas.
  • Link to a specific blog post about your date that week. Don’t just link to your site’s home page. It needs to be the direct link to the post. Anything not directly linked to the post will be deleted.
  • Link back to Simply Modern Mom or put the Project 52: Date Nights button on your site. It’s common courtesy. Please be nice.

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One More Entry

In Life on February 1, 2010 at 3:21 pm

Can I make one last entry for the ‘What does not belong?’ game? This occurred today while I attempted to catch up on my emails and RSS feed reader. Sorry if you emailed me anytime last Thursday to Sunday. I am still trying to catch up on emails and my chaotic house…

Case in point. And look at the grin on that face.

What Does Not Belong Game

In Life on February 1, 2010 at 9:01 am

This is a game of ‘What Does Not Belong?’ Will you play with me? However, I do have to warn you that I am awesome at this game. I have a sixth sense for spotting things that are out of place. OK, do know that I don’t go in people’s homes and see all the things that are out of place. I don’t care that other people’s homes are not magazine spread worthy. You will see in the pictures below that my house is far from being in the next issue of Better Homes and Garden.

Here is how to play… Identify in each picture below which item(s) does not belong in the scene. A point for each item you identify. This game is brought to you by… Kaye and Elle. My two girls who set up this game for me each and every day. See an additional entry to this game.

So how did you do? Did you find something in every picture?

BTB Tips: Custom Framing

In Arts, Back to Basics on February 1, 2010 at 9:00 am

My years of working as a custom framer I have one advice to give for picking out frames and mats for whatever it is you are framing. Make sure you design the frame and matting to fit the image/picture you are framing. Don’t pick out styles or colors to match where you want to put the picture.

Surprisingly, that is one of the biggest mistakes people make. They know where it is going to go in their house, so they pick out that bright blue mat to match the wall coloring. Ooops. What happens when you repaint the wall? Or when you want to put the frame somewhere else in the house?

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